I remember, during my days at IIM Ahmedabad, one of my batch mate was from Bihar. His seniors and the batch mates always used to tease him as “Bihari” and every time he would invariably show his anger and frustration- what an insult it is to be called a Bihari. Sardarjis sportingly crack jokes on Sardarjis, any south Indian in North is referred to as Madrasi, people make fun of Bengalis for their accent, It still eludes me why Biharis take offense to be addressed as Biharis. I wonder, if there is a Bihari World Congress held today , how many Biharis would really identify themselves to be so and register them to attend it.
While the accomplished Biharis who pride in being called so include Shatrughan Sinha, Laloo Prasad and the likes, It is heartening to see many of my Bihari friends (I have too many of them) like Rajesh Kumar, T V Sinha, taking extreme pride in being a Bihari and in their own way they explore what ever little they can do to better the image of Bihar, at times using internet, as a mass media tool for consensus building.
The recent act of a Bihari youth Rahul has again cast a shadow on the prudence of possible Bihari terrorists or extremists ! Will anyone with sound sense dare to hijack a crowded bus in broad daylight in a crowded city like Mumbai with a single pistol? Do you think any international terrorist group will ever hire a Bihari now ?
When Gujarat was pitching for Nano, Narendra Modi and his arch rival the Congress leader of opposition joined hands to ensure Tata moves their prestigious Nano plant to Gujarat and finally they won. When Tamil Nadu Chief Minister wanted to create pressure on the centre for the cause of Tamilians living in Sri Lanka , the disgruntled Dayanidhi Maran and MDMK Party leaders rose above partisan politics and joined hands with DMK to collectively make a protest to draw centre’s attention. But when the politicians from Bihar need to put up a joint fight for the sake of prejudiced Biharis in Mumbai, we find Laloo Prasad and Nitish Kumar are fighting over who would resign first , whether the– MP’s or the MLA’s ?
We have heard of so many scams – like scams in Defense deal, oil deals , Bofors Gun, Hawala scam, but can anyone think of fodder scam? Finally you come down to cheating the animals ! One colleague of mine told me that she removed her watch while travelling in a public bus in Patna fearing instances of watch snatching in Bihar. While in Delhi and other such “Developed Metros” the criminals lift the woman itself, the Bihari criminals are just happy to do away with a ladies watch.
Politicians to extremists or the thieves what Bihar needs today is a great vision moving away from fodders, Watches and the likes . Biharis must remember the IBM tagline – “Think Big” !
I am reproducing an extract from a mail from my friend TV Sinha which he wrote to Karan Thapar after he interviewed Shobha De and raised the B-Question.
“Do try to recall. Did Patna have a communal riot in decades? This decade? In the nineties? In the eighties? Seventies? Let me tell you, Patna has never had a communal riot. Regional feelings? Patna has a fairly large Bengali population which competes fiercely for the few jobs that are available. In fact, during the early British period, they had a virtual monopoly on the government jobs. But have you ever heard of a hate campaign against them? Marwaris control a large part of the trade in the city. Punjabis are in large number. The second holiest place of the Sikhs is at Patna: the birthplace of Guru Gobind Singhji. South Indians are a thriving community here, numbering about 30,000. Anglo Indians are another thriving community at Patna and nearby Danapur. Two seats in the Bihar assembly are reserved for the Anglo Indian community. The author William Dalrymple has himself written to me that his family has strong Bhagalpur connections. But for a few minor incidents of Sikh owned shops looted in the aftermath of Indira Gandhi’s murder (mind you, no murders of Sikhs at Patna at that time), can you give a single incident of hate crime or campaign based on ethnicity? The closest you will come to a riotous situation in Patna is during the 1942 Quit India movement and the JP movement of 1970’s: both for a national cause. “




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I never knew you had such an insightful blog going. Great to see this.
Thanks
beautifully written
u know william darymple??personally?
I dont know Dalrymple personally. I critiqued one of his articles which was written in FT and he replied to me sharing his Bhagalpur connections in an email.
A good part of this article is very fair.
But, one point : Patna is very low on ‘hate crime’. But,over-all law & order is a problem in Patna and for that matter, in a large part of Bihar.
Beautifully quoted both weak and strong points.
Some data given by you has cirtainly added to my thoughts of being proud to be Bihari.
Well found your article not much convincing and seems its just nothing more than an brush to sound different without matching the ground reality.
Let me start from the end paragraph which should sum up the Bihar & Biharipan ala hatredness of bihari’s.
Bihari’s are born racist. Bihari’s live to follow this racism based on one’s birth called castism. Whole bihar is in its grip, which to any indian would look a dirty thing but for bihari his caste is God given and he/she lives to uphold this holy caste with extreme religiosity. Go and just say your’s caste to people of bihar specifically from outside your community and then you see. Caste to a bihari is Divine & following this pathetic brahmnical order is path to moksha. Other things for him are worldy maya- immaterial. The hunger for food,the discrimination outside on being bihari, the non living of bihari as social block, the non availability of oppurtunities in bihar, the worldly peace etc are nothing but maya. The holy amrut being the blood of your lesser born caste people from child to old person.
So pls my dear Indian friend, we the bihari’s do not live in world for worldly gains / maya but we live in this mrityulog to see there is mrityu based on godly prescribed varna.
Now to your first para that bihari’s get angered when others made joke on them. Well though we bihari’s try to follow our divinity castism ruthlessly & religious fervour of hatred, being human is to err and sometimes when such jokes/rebukes we get in the maya name of bihari we do get irritated or ashamed for time bieng till we get confused in maya jaal of sansar. But again regain our conscience that that all this is maya. As ultimate dharma being casteist.
Seriously …Amazing and knowledgeable blog…
seems ..you have/had lot of bihari friends…
I proud to be bihari and also feel pride in being said so…
proud to be bihari<3
the more people hate on us the prouder i become
i live in aus and if people ask if im indian i say no “im bihari”
Hi,
I myself have observed Biharis of various classes and I believe that it is the lower class (labour class) Biharis who are responsible for damaging Bihar’s reputation.
Note that I say class and not caste.
I have no problems with the upper and middle class biharis who are well cultured and decent in nature. It is the lower class who use abusive language, have rowdy behaviour and vulgar attitude towards women.
You have just to listen how they talk. In each and every line they will utter atleast one ‘ma-behen’ expletive. They will utter expletives even in the presence of women. Their general behaviour is also very rowdy and unruly. They will break queques, break traffic rules, resort to intimidation and violence for the smallest of issues. You just have a minor argument and soon you will be facing a gang.
However the baddest part is their complete lack of respect for women. You just have to watch how they shamelessly oogle at women, sometimes even in presence of their husbands’ and children. And what they do with women in crowded places I can’t describe. Having these people in your vicinity is a constant threat to your women folk.
You may say that what I described above is applicable to lower class non-biharis also. But I don’t think so. I have seen lower class rajasthanis, keralites, gujaratis and found them to much much better than the lower class biharis.
Again I repeat that I have no problem with the upper and middle class Biharis. They are good people. It is the lower labour class biharis who have a very base culture and carry their base culture with them wherever they go.
I leave in banglore Karnataka
people hate us here Girls dont talk to us
i always hide the fact that Iam Bhiari
–I hate to be called Bhihari Since all my classmates from bihar are extremely voilent
Teachers dont like them they always eat PANBEDA
DRINK AND COME to class tease the girls
And not only that they cheat in exams
When asked they say they are from BHIAR shame lessly People of Banglore are really nice.
Unlike MADARASIS they speak to u with respect
I wont to be karntaka person but icant because Iam BHIARI
T agree with Tribhuvan that people in banglore
are really nice yes they speak to every one with upmost respect.I have hardly seen any voilence EVE-Teasing,people speaking in VULGAR language
I was born and brought up in BIHAR now iwant my son
cont..
Iwant my son to grow up like KANNDIAGA i,e Banglorian,not like a person for BIHAR like ME
Iam ashamed of tthe fact that Iam Bihari
I appologise if i have hurt Any one By this
But this is Fact Change Bihar Before it is CHARRED to Coal
U like Banglore Doesnt mean that u will hate Bihar
I to like Bagnlore and Karnataka but i LOVE BIHAr
Our voice may be not similar, but have to contribute time, wealth for improvement our land.All bihari citizen has duty to think about this and tell to proudly be a Bihari.
I Proud to be birth at bihar and till death I am Bihari even I live anywhere.
bihari’s should first love their state and believe in karma not on words….just saying banglore is good and bihar is bad..looks using just one aspect of the coin, every place has some good and bad things, bihar also has n numbers of great and glorious past and still severely contributing in country’s growth.
people using bihari word as a slang doesn’t mean it’s a slang we can change it and we will.
if not satisfied try using some search engines for contribution of bihar..from alexender defeat in bihar(maurya time) to super 30.
i am a journalist working on a show on Bihari diaspora could you pass me the contact details of your IIM batchmate.
thanks
well article is nice , but i do not think now biharies are ashamed of being called as bihari
i my self is bihari doing my m b b s in hyderabad and i do not find any moral difference between us and them
iam very much intrested in settling in bihar rether then here in hyderabed
and i feel sorry for them who feel shame in calling themself a bihari
@ Anjali: i live in aus and if people ask if im indian i say no “im bihari”…..thnx a lot for portraying India as a non-united country…where we have states….bihar, UP, Kerala, Tamil Nadu…but no place called India…..IS BIHAR NOT IN INDIA? WHEN REST OF THE INDIANS ARE NOT ASHAMED IN SAYING THAt BIHAR IS IN INDIA….HERE U SAY THAT UR NOT AN INDIAN, UR A BIHARI…..N IN WHICH COUNTRY IS UR “MUCH LOVED” BIHAR? WHO GIVES FUNDS TO DEVELUP YOUR MOST UNDER DEVELOPED STATE? THE CENTRE@ DELHI….CAPITAL OF BIHAR…..HATE U PPL FOR DIVIDING INDIA INTO STATES, N NOT UPHOLDING THE UNITY OF INDIA…..THIS REALLY SHOWS HOW ILLITERATE N UNEDUCATED PPL OF BIHAR ARE….
great article…… but fact is that bihar is poorest state of india not because of resourses ,but due to people’s attitude…i am also from bihar but i don’t like my society over there
you cannot generalise things.i am bengali but was born and brought up in ranchi.bihar has got a bad image outside.racism in the name of language,caste,plce etc. are to be found everywhere including bihar.bengalis are migrating,now very few south indians are in ranchi.
well the article is beautifully crafted,no 2nd thought abt it,i am a part of the prestigious engineering set up and i have noticed one thing in bihari community which doesnt even has iota of reality for other states or community.if a bihari sees his friend in need irrespective of the state or community he will be even ready to give his food away and will love to sleep without a bite,and the amount of humbleness and generosity they facilitate is afable.there is no bigger helping hand extended to other communities then the biharis.i do agree the good,the bad and the goons do exists but everything has a history.
as i feel pround 2 b an INDIAN..in the same way i feel proud to a BIHARI..i m also in engg. clg n they called me BIHARI..bt i nvr feel ashamed..instead i feel proud as according 2 me i represent BIHAR for showing them the BIHAR they r thinking is nowhere exit..
i am from maharastra basically and have many frnds frm bihar, but the thing that i have seen in bihari people is that they are reluctant to mix up, use abusive language in front of girls, and they practise regionalism themselves. i had a friend name geetika from patna compalining all the time bout hated towards biharis and herself cursing bengalis and rajasthanis all the time..so it proves wen biharis get an oppertuanity themselves they have regionalism.
also if lakhs and lakhs and of people come to bihar and take their jobs what will the biharis do then? welcome them?
@radhika..whteva yu wrote shows hw small n sick mentality yu had got..yu got no ryt gal to talk ne shit abt BIHAR if yu dnt knw abt it..ILLITERATE N UNEDUCATED ppl,is ind illitrate cz of us only??ur article shows hw small ur mentality is..get a lyf gal,rathr i wud say grow up..
@Tswastik n tribhuvan..fine ppl,be BANGALOREN evn v dnt need ppl lyk yu
@writer..hats off to yu man,jz luvd ur article
i love bihar and biharis..shilpika u r awesome <3
ek bihari
sab par bhari,
2 bihari desh hamari
Proud to be bihari,I am concerned with the part when you said biharis have bad names everywhere even in Pakistan, is not right, it is true for some reasons but it could be anybody from any community but Biharis are point out unnecessarily, they are very good in education, they are hard workers, talented, and down to earth.
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