I remember, during my days at IIM Ahmedabad, one of my batch mate was from Bihar. His seniors and the batch mates always used to tease him as “Bihari” and every time he would invariably show his anger and frustration- what an insult it is to be called a Bihari. Sardarjis sportingly crack jokes on Sardarjis, any south Indian in North is referred to as Madrasi, people make fun of Bengalis for their accent, It still eludes me why Biharis take offense to be addressed as Biharis. I wonder, if there is a Bihari World Congress held today , how many Biharis would really identify themselves to be so and register them to attend it.
While the accomplished Biharis who pride in being called so include Shatrughan Sinha, Laloo Prasad and the likes, It is heartening to see many of my Bihari friends (I have too many of them) like Rajesh Kumar, T V Sinha, taking extreme pride in being a Bihari and in their own way they explore what ever little they can do to better the image of Bihar, at times using internet, as a mass media tool for consensus building.
The recent act of a Bihari youth Rahul has again cast a shadow on the prudence of possible Bihari terrorists or extremists ! Will anyone with sound sense dare to hijack a crowded bus in broad daylight in a crowded city like Mumbai with a single pistol? Do you think any international terrorist group will ever hire a Bihari now ?
When Gujarat was pitching for Nano, Narendra Modi and his arch rival the Congress leader of opposition joined hands to ensure Tata moves their prestigious Nano plant to Gujarat and finally they won. When Tamil Nadu Chief Minister wanted to create pressure on the centre for the cause of Tamilians living in Sri Lanka , the disgruntled Dayanidhi Maran and MDMK Party leaders rose above partisan politics and joined hands with DMK to collectively make a protest to draw centre’s attention. But when the politicians from Bihar need to put up a joint fight for the sake of prejudiced Biharis in Mumbai, we find Laloo Prasad and Nitish Kumar are fighting over who would resign first , whether the– MP’s or the MLA’s ?
We have heard of so many scams – like scams in Defense deal, oil deals , Bofors Gun, Hawala scam, but can anyone think of fodder scam? Finally you come down to cheating the animals ! One colleague of mine told me that she removed her watch while travelling in a public bus in Patna fearing instances of watch snatching in Bihar. While in Delhi and other such “Developed Metros” the criminals lift the woman itself, the Bihari criminals are just happy to do away with a ladies watch.
Politicians to extremists or the thieves what Bihar needs today is a great vision moving away from fodders, Watches and the likes . Biharis must remember the IBM tagline – “Think Big” !
I am reproducing an extract from a mail from my friend TV Sinha which he wrote to Karan Thapar after he interviewed Shobha De and raised the B-Question.
“Do try to recall. Did Patna have a communal riot in decades? This decade? In the nineties? In the eighties? Seventies? Let me tell you, Patna has never had a communal riot. Regional feelings? Patna has a fairly large Bengali population which competes fiercely for the few jobs that are available. In fact, during the early British period, they had a virtual monopoly on the government jobs. But have you ever heard of a hate campaign against them? Marwaris control a large part of the trade in the city. Punjabis are in large number. The second holiest place of the Sikhs is at Patna: the birthplace of Guru Gobind Singhji. South Indians are a thriving community here, numbering about 30,000. Anglo Indians are another thriving community at Patna and nearby Danapur. Two seats in the Bihar assembly are reserved for the Anglo Indian community. The author William Dalrymple has himself written to me that his family has strong Bhagalpur connections. But for a few minor incidents of Sikh owned shops looted in the aftermath of Indira Gandhi’s murder (mind you, no murders of Sikhs at Patna at that time), can you give a single incident of hate crime or campaign based on ethnicity? The closest you will come to a riotous situation in Patna is during the 1942 Quit India movement and the JP movement of 1970’s: both for a national cause. “




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I never knew you had such an insightful blog going. Great to see this.
Thanks
beautifully written
u know william darymple??personally?
I dont know Dalrymple personally. I critiqued one of his articles which was written in FT and he replied to me sharing his Bhagalpur connections in an email.
A good part of this article is very fair.
But, one point : Patna is very low on ‘hate crime’. But,over-all law & order is a problem in Patna and for that matter, in a large part of Bihar.
Beautifully quoted both weak and strong points.
Some data given by you has cirtainly added to my thoughts of being proud to be Bihari.
Well found your article not much convincing and seems its just nothing more than an brush to sound different without matching the ground reality.
Let me start from the end paragraph which should sum up the Bihar & Biharipan ala hatredness of bihari’s.
Bihari’s are born racist. Bihari’s live to follow this racism based on one’s birth called castism. Whole bihar is in its grip, which to any indian would look a dirty thing but for bihari his caste is God given and he/she lives to uphold this holy caste with extreme religiosity. Go and just say your’s caste to people of bihar specifically from outside your community and then you see. Caste to a bihari is Divine & following this pathetic brahmnical order is path to moksha. Other things for him are worldy maya- immaterial. The hunger for food,the discrimination outside on being bihari, the non living of bihari as social block, the non availability of oppurtunities in bihar, the worldly peace etc are nothing but maya. The holy amrut being the blood of your lesser born caste people from child to old person.
So pls my dear Indian friend, we the bihari’s do not live in world for worldly gains / maya but we live in this mrityulog to see there is mrityu based on godly prescribed varna.
Now to your first para that bihari’s get angered when others made joke on them. Well though we bihari’s try to follow our divinity castism ruthlessly & religious fervour of hatred, being human is to err and sometimes when such jokes/rebukes we get in the maya name of bihari we do get irritated or ashamed for time bieng till we get confused in maya jaal of sansar. But again regain our conscience that that all this is maya. As ultimate dharma being casteist.
Seriously …Amazing and knowledgeable blog…
seems ..you have/had lot of bihari friends…
I proud to be bihari and also feel pride in being said so…
proud to be bihari<3
the more people hate on us the prouder i become
i live in aus and if people ask if im indian i say no “im bihari”
Hi,
I myself have observed Biharis of various classes and I believe that it is the lower class (labour class) Biharis who are responsible for damaging Bihar’s reputation.
Note that I say class and not caste.
I have no problems with the upper and middle class biharis who are well cultured and decent in nature. It is the lower class who use abusive language, have rowdy behaviour and vulgar attitude towards women.
You have just to listen how they talk. In each and every line they will utter atleast one ‘ma-behen’ expletive. They will utter expletives even in the presence of women. Their general behaviour is also very rowdy and unruly. They will break queques, break traffic rules, resort to intimidation and violence for the smallest of issues. You just have a minor argument and soon you will be facing a gang.
However the baddest part is their complete lack of respect for women. You just have to watch how they shamelessly oogle at women, sometimes even in presence of their husbands’ and children. And what they do with women in crowded places I can’t describe. Having these people in your vicinity is a constant threat to your women folk.
You may say that what I described above is applicable to lower class non-biharis also. But I don’t think so. I have seen lower class rajasthanis, keralites, gujaratis and found them to much much better than the lower class biharis.
Again I repeat that I have no problem with the upper and middle class Biharis. They are good people. It is the lower labour class biharis who have a very base culture and carry their base culture with them wherever they go.
I leave in banglore Karnataka
people hate us here Girls dont talk to us
i always hide the fact that Iam Bhiari
–I hate to be called Bhihari Since all my classmates from bihar are extremely voilent
Teachers dont like them they always eat PANBEDA
DRINK AND COME to class tease the girls
And not only that they cheat in exams
When asked they say they are from BHIAR shame lessly People of Banglore are really nice.
Unlike MADARASIS they speak to u with respect
I wont to be karntaka person but icant because Iam BHIARI
T agree with Tribhuvan that people in banglore
are really nice yes they speak to every one with upmost respect.I have hardly seen any voilence EVE-Teasing,people speaking in VULGAR language
I was born and brought up in BIHAR now iwant my son
cont..
Iwant my son to grow up like KANNDIAGA i,e Banglorian,not like a person for BIHAR like ME
Iam ashamed of tthe fact that Iam Bihari
I appologise if i have hurt Any one By this
But this is Fact Change Bihar Before it is CHARRED to Coal
U like Banglore Doesnt mean that u will hate Bihar
I to like Bagnlore and Karnataka but i LOVE BIHAr
Our voice may be not similar, but have to contribute time, wealth for improvement our land.All bihari citizen has duty to think about this and tell to proudly be a Bihari.
I Proud to be birth at bihar and till death I am Bihari even I live anywhere.
bihari’s should first love their state and believe in karma not on words….just saying banglore is good and bihar is bad..looks using just one aspect of the coin, every place has some good and bad things, bihar also has n numbers of great and glorious past and still severely contributing in country’s growth.
people using bihari word as a slang doesn’t mean it’s a slang we can change it and we will.
if not satisfied try using some search engines for contribution of bihar..from alexender defeat in bihar(maurya time) to super 30.
i am a journalist working on a show on Bihari diaspora could you pass me the contact details of your IIM batchmate.
thanks
well article is nice , but i do not think now biharies are ashamed of being called as bihari
i my self is bihari doing my m b b s in hyderabad and i do not find any moral difference between us and them
iam very much intrested in settling in bihar rether then here in hyderabed
and i feel sorry for them who feel shame in calling themself a bihari
@ Anjali: i live in aus and if people ask if im indian i say no “im bihari”…..thnx a lot for portraying India as a non-united country…where we have states….bihar, UP, Kerala, Tamil Nadu…but no place called India…..IS BIHAR NOT IN INDIA? WHEN REST OF THE INDIANS ARE NOT ASHAMED IN SAYING THAt BIHAR IS IN INDIA….HERE U SAY THAT UR NOT AN INDIAN, UR A BIHARI…..N IN WHICH COUNTRY IS UR “MUCH LOVED” BIHAR? WHO GIVES FUNDS TO DEVELUP YOUR MOST UNDER DEVELOPED STATE? THE CENTRE@ DELHI….CAPITAL OF BIHAR…..HATE U PPL FOR DIVIDING INDIA INTO STATES, N NOT UPHOLDING THE UNITY OF INDIA…..THIS REALLY SHOWS HOW ILLITERATE N UNEDUCATED PPL OF BIHAR ARE….
great article…… but fact is that bihar is poorest state of india not because of resourses ,but due to people’s attitude…i am also from bihar but i don’t like my society over there
you cannot generalise things.i am bengali but was born and brought up in ranchi.bihar has got a bad image outside.racism in the name of language,caste,plce etc. are to be found everywhere including bihar.bengalis are migrating,now very few south indians are in ranchi.
well the article is beautifully crafted,no 2nd thought abt it,i am a part of the prestigious engineering set up and i have noticed one thing in bihari community which doesnt even has iota of reality for other states or community.if a bihari sees his friend in need irrespective of the state or community he will be even ready to give his food away and will love to sleep without a bite,and the amount of humbleness and generosity they facilitate is afable.there is no bigger helping hand extended to other communities then the biharis.i do agree the good,the bad and the goons do exists but everything has a history.
as i feel pround 2 b an INDIAN..in the same way i feel proud to a BIHARI..i m also in engg. clg n they called me BIHARI..bt i nvr feel ashamed..instead i feel proud as according 2 me i represent BIHAR for showing them the BIHAR they r thinking is nowhere exit..
i am from maharastra basically and have many frnds frm bihar, but the thing that i have seen in bihari people is that they are reluctant to mix up, use abusive language in front of girls, and they practise regionalism themselves. i had a friend name geetika from patna compalining all the time bout hated towards biharis and herself cursing bengalis and rajasthanis all the time..so it proves wen biharis get an oppertuanity themselves they have regionalism.
also if lakhs and lakhs and of people come to bihar and take their jobs what will the biharis do then? welcome them?
@radhika..whteva yu wrote shows hw small n sick mentality yu had got..yu got no ryt gal to talk ne shit abt BIHAR if yu dnt knw abt it..ILLITERATE N UNEDUCATED ppl,is ind illitrate cz of us only??ur article shows hw small ur mentality is..get a lyf gal,rathr i wud say grow up..
@Tswastik n tribhuvan..fine ppl,be BANGALOREN evn v dnt need ppl lyk yu
@writer..hats off to yu man,jz luvd ur article
i love bihar and biharis..shilpika u r awesome <3
ek bihari
sab par bhari,
2 bihari desh hamari
Proud to be bihari,I am concerned with the part when you said biharis have bad names everywhere even in Pakistan, is not right, it is true for some reasons but it could be anybody from any community but Biharis are point out unnecessarily, they are very good in education, they are hard workers, talented, and down to earth.
It is true and no denial that biharis them self are to be blamed for being hated .I once asked my Muslims friend “why do muslims hate bihari muslims even when islam is very strictly against caste-ism and regionalism, jokeingly he replied ” hum yeah mante hai ke bihari namaaz padta hai toh allah bhi napak ho jaata hai “..though this happened around more than 25 years back recently i got an opportunity to visit and tour bihar and to my shock wut was true 25 yrs back was still the fact bihar was dirty and heaven for diseases to grow ..
For the rest where some one has mentioned about biharis being cheap towards woman ..well my friend to be honest nothing beats a punjabi in that case or a jaat ..
But the issue with a bihari is,he immigrant and a weak target he has little of everything bad which is quite magnified in rest but in parts in non bihari ..but with a bihari well he is blessed with all the negatives in parts ..
bihari are very bad people
as ma boyfriend was bihari
and he always lie n cheated me
they never keep promise
always lie and his family horrible
his family is to bad they support al bad things
bihari have no value
people in bihar are very much cruel and educated fools
narrow minded rest of india rocks except bihar
Nice to see this blog . I want to share one of my experience with one of my friend from Bihar.Once we both were going by an scooter and suddenly a rickshaw wala hit that scooter .My friend said that rickshaw wala “Bihari kahin ka dekh ke nahin chalata”. Next moment I asked him “Hey You are also a Bihari “.He replied Oh yes but i am an EDUCATED BIHARI.
This incident still brings smile .
Here I want to add things for those who are Bengali, Punjabi, Gujrati, Marwari and others, we Bihari provide them good space to them and they are coexisting with us since long time but they haven’t accepted themselves as Bihari. Why it so. It means they are doing good. Many Punjabi never seen pujab but will tell belong to Punjab even their born and brought done in Bihar. I don’t find any who has real love with Bihar. Only use Bihar and Bihari. There are many states where people agitate for job snatching from Bihari, they ever think, what they are paying and what work they are taking. Shamed!!!
Fast forward to 2011, we Biharis are proud to be Biharis, one of the fastest growing states in India and a relatively peaceful one too.
Here I will add one more thing, you type of people are so called qualified but not educated. I am pointing out something here u just check urself and tell me whether u a educated person or not. Have u ever broken the traffic rule? U just put ur hand on heart tell me u never see a girl in a strange manner. U never tell any lie. u never misuse electricity. u r not the part of damaging the nature. What item u r using today that not increasing green house effect and those are also affecting who are not using this things then who are responsible and who are uneducated. U only because u r knowing all these things, but still u r the enemy of nature as well as common people. I will tell u after making this type of comments and going through this type of reply, u will have the sleepless night, and I am waiting for that. And never forget u type of people are qualified uneducated…
iam proud to be bihari what ever people think let them think jai bihar . one more i just wana know why people only point bihar people many indian people from other state do alot of criminal activity u can take example of any other state some one told me that yar sare bihari dilli aa jate hai or sab ganda kar dete hai but this is not true how can you forgot pujabi they ware shifted in all part of dilli why don’ any one point on tham real indian said that he hates lower class people why is they not an indian ????????? rply me real indian jai bihar jai bihari
a lot of work done by these lower people only.
one knows how they are from inside ok
For shweta:
if lakhs and lakhs people come to our state,we will welcome them becoz people of our state do hardwork.they do not beat anyone if they get fail coz of not studying.and you were talking about labours they use bad words.
it is indeed true that bihar with best geographical part with greatest people ever . bihar got one of the best history.
i am prous to be bihari
i am born and brought up in delhi , and i feel hatred at times in my childhood to be as bihari, but slowly after knowing all pros and cons it brought utmost faith in me , now in my college introduction i call myself from bihar rather from delhi.
i even put JANAU on my ear among all guys in toilet.
i even kept a TIKI(small chutiya for brahamans) on my head. if someone hate you change yourself , don’t change your identity. In same way if people hate bihar , we have to change the mentality, not leave the bihar in vain.
Hello,
Still not coming out with the secret 
I am a woman with a son now. My age is around 40, I went to very good engg schol in India and US and I feel really shameful if I am called Bihari. I did not growup in Bihar, but I have some words, language that give away the secret I try to hide. I was teashed in BE college, group of NRI grls didnt talk to me because of at age 35 and list goes on..when someone is really jealous of me- they pull out their ‘Bihari’ trick. I had one change to ditch this term by getting married to a non bihari but can you imagine no guys wanted a biharen GF. I am very sad about this state of Bihar. My mother is very proud- and dare anyone say something about bihar- but then she is very loud, assertive, and could have cleared IAS- meaning she has alot of facts and she starts dishing out. But she first gives the other person a chance. I am not a loud person and not assertive, so I feel I should hide this fact. BTW I went for arranged marriage to a bihari guy, I do not think it is so tough for Bihari guys because I think it is mens world after all and I see a lot of Bihari guy marrying outside but not the other way round. Okay my marriage is/was difficult and I even blame my bihari ILs and husband for it. I do feel Bihar is less forward in terms of Womens’ rights and issues. And as we know- you can know culture by looking at how they treat their women.
After all this, I want to point out that once travelling in indian railways I was almost attacked by two Delhities and my bhiari co passengers were able to save me! Hail Bihar
Bihar was/is a pseudo state (as per the state creation criteria of India) created by the Britishers.Bihar itself consists of four distinct cultural/linguistic zones-Bhojpuri,Magahi,Maithili and Santhali(Now Jharkhand). These four communities aren’t alike at all except that they belong to an artificially created state-Bihar.They have their own individualistic languages,cuisine,rituals and culture as well as separate geographical regions.Each one of them tries to assert their own individuality and share a neither love-nor hate relationship.
Due to the over media hype of Bhojpuri language movies-which doesn’t at all depict the original culture, the entire nation has “decided” to stereotype all these people as one community-Bihari a.k.a Bhojpuri. Now the other “cultured” people in “Bihar” see this as an attack to their identity. Moreover the Bhojpuri population is huge compared to the maithili/magahi/awadhi(u.p) populations. Also people assume all “Biharis” to be just like those uneducated-unsophisticated labours having the least sense of hygeine and stuff. even lower class Tamils/Telugus/Bengalis/Marathis/Gujaratis/Rajasthanis and all those Indians that I have missed out are rustic and bucolic to the same extent as these “villager” Biharis are .Now obviously Maithili/Magahi/Bhojpuri culture hasn’t been as publicised as the Tamil/Bengali/Oriya culture and that has kind of put a veil on the eyes of the Nation that even the lower class labourers of Odisha/Bengal/Tamil nadu are as cultured as an average/cultured Tamilian/Bengali/Oriya.
So in order to avoid being stereotyped as a “villager”/”uneducated-unsophisticated” “ruckus-creator” “sexed up ready to rape/abuse/strike-Bhaiyya/Bhojpuri/Bihari”, many “Biharis-Bhojpuri/Magahi/Maithili” avoid the tag-”Bihari”.
Also every guy/gal whose mother tongue isn’t Hindi speaks Hindi with an accent.Be it the Bengali accent or the Punjabi accent.Magahi,Maithili,Bhojpuri etc etc are the mothertongues of “Bihari” people and thus is the accent so. Also a “Maithil” guy’s Hindi accent is different from a “Bhojpuri” Guy’s accent. And no offense meant A “Bihari” guy’s accent isn’t thaaaaaat different from a “Bengali” Guy’s Hindi accent.So what is the point in making fun of the accent.atleast we are trying to communicate in a language that is supposed to be the official language of the nation as well as the language that the interlocutor can comprehend.
So who is to help the denizens of a Geographically neglected and harassed, politically raped state???India/Indians love to take the credit of having the first democracy-Vaishali,Uniting India for the first time-Asoka,Mathematics-Aryabhatta,Education-Nalanda,Vikramshila,Economics-Kautilya,The GrandTrunk Road-Sher SuRI..ETC ETC ETC ETC………
The Entire Eastern Indian Culture and Linguistics from Bengal to Odisha to Kamrup(Assam) is highly derived from the Maithili Culture which is a part of Bihar and Nepal nowadays.Bengalis take extreme pride in their script-do they know its origins. Gurudev Rabindranath Tagore’s first poem was in Maithili-Do they know that. Shankarachrya of Assam wrote in Brajabuli which is basically medeival Maithili.etctetctetctetcetc….
And if Biharis tend to think India as their country and go to earn a living there then it becomes a problem. The biggest stupidity the the “Biharis” did was that they gave up their language and scripts for a “national Lnguage” which never became.The biggest curse that befell them was that they thought entire India was their country rather than thinking that “Indians” want only “Bihar” to be their country.
Moreover Darwinism is working here also .If people of Bengal/Assam/TamilNadu/Maharashtra and all the other “Others” Of India are listening, work harder,strive your arses off, become more intelligent,more hardworking and snatch the jobs off those ill-mannered “Biharis” and you won’t even need to kick them off your precious “State”. And if they still threaten you, evolve physically enough to kick their arses off your “State”. Do something OTHER THAN CRIBBING. This way will also help the “Nation”.And then you’ll can be all snug and smug with your
“Culture and Language”.
Also all the facts about bihar are very wrongly publicised. There is as much difference and similarity in U.P. and Bihar as is Between Maharashtra and Karnataka or as is with Bengal and Orissa or Bengal and Bihar.So it is time people actually get to know each other rather than harnessing pre-conceived notions about particular groups of people.
only one word excellent sirji
I am a Bengali and I am proud to be a Bengali because I have seen how people from other states respect us for our culture and polite attitude. But man!!! Biharis have some bad attitude. I had done my graduation at Nagpur, Maharashtra and seen many students from Bihar. Don’t take it in a wrong way, but all of them were rowdy by attitude and behaved like they were from some other world. I had seen them misbehaving with girls and they were proud of that. Almost every now and then they had some scuffle with the local people or with other students. In an incident, I had seen Bihari students hurling stones and beer bottles to the same house owner where they were living. So, most of the house owners in nagpur don’t even give their houses for rent to a Bihari student because they are well known of the consequences. I think to get respect from the people of other states, Biharis first have to change their behaviour and attitude. They should learn to respect the local people,local women and local language. Otherwise this saga of Anti Bihari sentiments will continue.
Biharis hate to call themselves bihari because there isn’t any true community called bihari unlike bengali,marathi,gujarati which are by and large homogenous communities.Bihar is a pseudo state with mixture of Bhojpuris,Magahis,Maithils/Maithilis,Santhalis each having their own culture+language+cuisine+ geographical area+identity+etc. and are more or less self content.Bihari being a generalized term may seem derogatory to a Maithil/Maithili being mistaken for a Bhojpuri or Magahi or Santhali or vice-versa.
I am a person who respects everyone..irrespective of caste/religion/region. But as per my experience as a woman I would say I hate to be in presence of Bihari men..(not the educated office goers). they just stare at women and have dirty eyes and a dirty meaningful smile. and if its a crowd then they would do whatever they can. I feel lack of respect for women is the main reason Biharis are not entertained in other states.
and yes.. Bihari men are not alone. Another place where I would hate going to will be somewhere the population of burqa clad women are more. i dont want to mention religion or hurt sentiments. but this is SORE TRUTH. men in such places feel women who are not in burqa are meant to be looked at, teased etc. why? cos their sisters and mothers wear burqa and they are respectful. so others are NOT.
For the same reason..people hate this population and they try not to live in such an area
dear all,
having worked all across India .. bengali brought up in Bihar..worked extensively in BH/JH let me tell you one thing…Bihar might be anything but biharis are far better human being than the so called snobbish ppl in some states..they do not harbour any parochial feeling………..am a bong but am PROUD TO SAY I HAVE BEEN BROUGHT UP IN BIHAR…
Warm Regards,
Aritra Bhattacharya
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